The Practice of Becoming
A 12-step pathway to building your meaningful online presence.

A note from (me) Shirley.
If you’ve found your way here, welcome.
I know what it’s like to begin from scratch again—to feel called to share your work, your insight, or your story … but don't quite know how or where to start.
Whether you’re still forming your ideas or quietly stepping into a new identity, you’re in the right place.
This introductory series of 12 posts is a gentle, grounded path into building something meaningful—something that reflects who you are, not just what the world expects.
Let’s begin.
So, what if building a business wasn’t about becoming someone else—
But about becoming more deeply yourself?
If you’re just starting, it can feel risky, like you’re stepping into a fog with no map.
You might be asking yourself:
- “Is what I have to say even useful?”
- “How do I show up without pretending to have it all figured out?”
- “Can I do this without becoming someone I’m not?”
These questions are not signs you’re failing.
They’re signs you care.
They mean you’re already on the right path.
I know how much courage it takes to begin, especially when you’re still learning, still finding your voice, and still shaping what your work will become. That’s why I created this sequence of posts—to ease you in, one step at a time, and give you a grounded sense of what to expect when you work with me, Shirley, here at Wee Media.
This isn’t a blog series about growth hacks, personal branding, or hustle culture.
It’s a slow and steady invitation to uncover what’s already within you:
your insight, your experience, your guidance—and how it all comes together
to form a grounded, soul-aligned presence in the world.
If you're a guide, coach, creative, or contemplative thinker stepping into this new chapter—especially if you're still learning and growing yourself—this is for you.
What You Can Expect
Throughout these 12 posts, you’ll be guided through a process of:
- Finding your niche by reflecting on the problems you care most about.
- Getting clear on who you serve and how they experience the world.
- Crafting an offer that’s grounded in what you already do and know.
- Creating a simple, beautiful online presence that reflects your values.
- Building a content rhythm that feels nourishing, not performative.
- Connecting with others in a way that grows community, not just numbers.
- Developing a regenerative flywheel that keeps your practice evolving.
Each post uses a gentle, structured format to help you clarify your thinking, take small but focused actions, and build real momentum—without forcing or faking anything.
The Journey Ahead: Your 12-Part Practice
Here’s a gentle outline (linked to the respective 12 blog posts as they go live) of the path we’ll walk together:
Unearth your niche by following your natural patterns of empathy and curiosity.
Get clear on the person you’re here to help and how to speak their language.